INDEPENDENT: We are Independent people!! Cue the Destiny’s Child please. We love our freedom and to live on our own terms. This can lead to the bending of the rules, but we can’t help it we have a rebellious nature J

INDECISIVE: We like choices and options but if you give us too many we might implode. This is evident when I’m out for dinner and CANNOT decide between surf & turf, fettuccini alfredo or fajitas and almost have a nuclear meltdown. At that point and time it truly feels like a SERIOUS MATTER 😉

GREAT COMMUNICATOR: The Gift of Tongue, No pun intended. Gemini’s can talk and argue their way out of any situation. We are very persuasive and awesome advice givers. Sounds like Oprah, that woman can sell Raid to a bug, even sell salt to a slug, #Cassidy.

INTELLECTUAL: If curiosity killed the cat, thank goodness we’re human. Gemini’s are inquisitive and thought provocative individuals in need of mental stimulation. Intelligent, witty, and bright all describe the adventure seeking Gemini.

MAGNIFICENT MULTI-TASKERS: Very capable of handling multiple things simultaneously. Although we might get a little overexcited and want to put our hands into every pot and not finish every project, when we are TRULY committed to a situation we work overtime to make sure it is DONE, and DONE VERY WELL!!

LOVE & SEX: Now To The Juicy Stuff

Relationship Desires: Gemini’s needs an understanding partner who won’t start a fight because Gemini decides on a whim to take a weekend out of state trip. Gemini needs their space and is constantly on the search for the next adventure. However, when they want to cuddle and be homebody’s they expect their partner to be there waiting with the Chunky Monkey ice cream and Love & Basketball DVD. May seem a little contradictory but hey we have a dual personality, remember?? We need our partners to be emotionally telepathic because it is very difficult for Gemini’s to express their emotions and we can even be very confused by our own emotions. We crave sympathetic and tender partners who don’t necessarily try to solve our problems but just listen to them. It’s draining for us to be Dr. Phil all of the time, so when we come home we just want a little TLC as well. Even when Gemini’s are in relationships they tend to remain BIG flirts, for the most part it is innocent and playful banter that they participate in for the stimulating intellectual tease it provides. More often than not they won’t realize they are flirting until another party brings it to their attention. Lastly, Gemini males and females require faithfulness and fidelity from their partner. This mainly has to due to the fact that it takes a lot for Gemini’s to become vulnerable enough to let someone into their heart. Once you are in a relationship with them they expect you to honor all commitments made, if you cannot deliver they will be gone quickly and completely.

Sexual Desires: Gemini’s tend to use sex as an outlet to express all of their pent up emotions in one sitting. Look at it as an emotional colonic that just happens to be a lot more exciting. They crave variety, enjoy surprises, and light-hearted romance that delves deeper within their psyche. The standard chocolate, roses, and candle light dinner will not do for them, they much rather have a romp on a blanket watching a meteor shower. The often do not choose to engage in sex just for the sake of its physicality but more so for the emotional and intellectual connection that they may desire within a relationship. For Gemini’s to enjoy you sexually they must have a deeper connection with you because love and sex go hand in hand for them. Even if it is not at the “I Am In Love” with you stage there must be something within your personality that they ARE in love with, for them to want to have a relationship that has a sexual nature. Friends With Benefits situations tend not to be successful for Gemini’s because they tend to only satisfy some of the Gemini’s needs, however Gemini’s tend to be in these types of situations quite often because they love the spontaneity and freedom these relationships provide. The fate of the Gemini is the life long journey of seeking the perfect love. This can be disheartening to some but Gemini’s are one of the few signs that have felt the deep passionate love that others crave, at certain times in their lives because they are so adaptable. Three Great Loves a la The Bronx Tale.