So let me tell ya something, if you plan to tell me a story of some sort expect me to provide guidance to my readers on the topic. I will never mention a name but at the same time I want people to understand that I get told a lot of things that have me confused. What is the longest you are willing to talk to someone with no title? Not title, no goals on moving forward together, just nothing. You guys are literally just talking and entertaining each other with no expectations. Pretty much fuck buddies in my opinion.

So one of my home girls is “dating” someone and they’ve been actively dating for 3 years. Mind you I just learned they was dating this year. People don’t tell me things for a reason because of situations like this. They’ve been dating for 3 years, no relationship, he has met her family, she hasn’t met his family and when the topic of boyfriend/girlfriend comes up he seems to have an excuse. Immediately to me this entire thing is a joke because their is no way you are “with” someone for 3 years and you don’t meet their family. I don’t care about most things but when it comes to my friends, I’d rather them not get played and it seems dude playing her like he play with his food. Yes time limits don’t exist when it comes to dating someone but 3 years of only dating is crazy to me. If we live together and planning our future, that is different but if we not even talking about the future. . . .dassa no.

Does it come back to you knowing your worth or valuing your time? Do you have enough confidence to put yourself into a better situation? I personally will just be single if me and someone can’t be on the same page about stuff especially when it comes to a relationship. I will continue just minding my business, sip my tea and watch this netflix