The 2nd part of this blog is basically going to touch on being the option to somebody.
Sometimes we never realize when we are the option to someone until its to late and they have used us up and thrown us to the side. Sometimes we fail to take all the signs into consideration that we are the option to somebody when we have made them our priority. We haven’t learned enough or experienced enough to know the signs when we are being used and being 2nd best to someone else.
What do you do when you find out you’re the option to somebody? You can either 1. Tell them how you feel about it 2. Consider being the option or 3. Fall back from them entirely. If you know your worth then you know that you shouldn’t be someone options, or side piece. If they want to make you their option number 2 maybe its time for you to get up and reevaluate why your still around them.
“Never make someone your priority when your only there option”
when you turn out to be someone's option, you have no other choice but to keep it moving. it hurts but life is all about learning & growing. if that person is really for you, they'll come back later on. its unfortunate for people who love hard (and sometimes quickly) to only find out that same feeling isn't being reciprocated. but when it's finally the right person, being an option is never the case.. because you'll finally have the one that God ordained for you.
i would have to agree with you on this