As cuffing season approaches, prepare your inbox for one of those random messages from someone you haven’t heard from since the beginning of nice weather season. Cuffing season I would say starts at the end of September into October after those #HeyBigHead or #HeyStranger texts come through after labor day. After labor day you have a good 2 to 3 weeks to find your picks leading up to draft week (last week of September). Once this week approaches it’s time to pick your final player(s) and go into cuffing season hoping for the best. 

Cuffing season has become a routine for some people that don’t really want to be alone. They have someone for the fall and winter but once spring comes around, “It’s not you it’s me, I think we need a break.” Then it’s back to living wild and free. If that is what you are looking for go ahead and be great but I am definitely not one of those people that’s here for it. Since I announced my book I’ve received multiple #HeyBigHead messages and it was definitely unexpected. I am honestly clueless at times so I am responding like, “okay I have a big head, what about that dusty ass rug on your head that needs a lot of coconut oil?” I mean don’t come for me if I didn’t send for you is my policy. Then I would get messages from people I haven’t spoken to in years and it would just be useless chit chat. “Great hearing from you but go ahead, delete my number from your phone and move on with your life. Follow me on Instagram though.”

Too old to be stuck in these seasonal activities and dealing with people. I feel when you get to a certain age some of this stuff should no longer apply to you. If you aren’t able to be with someone through any season then that shows your lack of maturity and growth as an individual. No one needs seasonal people in their lives and if you are just going to show up and waste someone’s time, just leave now. Life is constantly changing and you have to be able to change with it.