The perspective of others can sometimes hurt what you see. No one ever understands entirely how you feel and whatever you are going thru. A similar situation may have happened but doesn’t mean they know how you feel as a person. I’ve had people try to tell me how I feel and why I do things the way I do them because they’ve been in a similar place but that’s not the case. Our perspectives are different, how I feel is different, how I act is different and no one behaves the same.

I am always aware of how I act or feel towards things nowadays because I have an understanding that life is too short and I am just trying to live it. I have changed and accepted the fact that I have but others can’t because they like the old me. When someone tells me, “its because your sister and dad died that you act this way now,” no it isn’t. I just care less and worry more about my self happiness versus anyone else’s. When you get introduced to new feelings and emotions that you’ve never felt sometimes you don’t know how to handle them. I just disconnect until I have control over them. People tend to give me advice on how they handle things but again that’s something coming from their own perspective of life.

Every human life looks at things different and draws their own opinion on it. Never think that we look at things the same because we are all unique individuals. What may be an unwelcoming fire to you, could be a safe haven for the cold for someone else. Perspectives are never the same.