Topic today is about communication and how people only assume it works one way instead of two.

Every time we are out and about its a habit for us to check our phones or our social networks to see who has sent us a message, but it gets frustrating when you send messages and the only time anyone ever responds or gets in contact with you is when you get in contact with them first.

For example, you always hit someone up maybe everyday and they never hit you up but one day you just don’t want to hit no one up and you get the message “so why you ain’t hit me up yet?” well maybe cause i shouldn’t feel obligated to hit you up all the time. People have to understand that communication is the key to success and that it goes both ways not just one way.

Another example of failed communication is that you always hit someone up via text, phone call or message and they never get back to you. They get mad at you though when you’reout with one of their friends and “supposedly” they weren’t invited. Well . . ..if you would have got back to me when i was contacting you like a stalker maybe you would have known. I feel that these type of people if you contact them 3-4 times and they don’t get back to you within a month(just because they might be busy) there numbers should be deleted and that takes up less space in your phone.

Word of advice to those who need it before getting mad at someone for not contacting you figure out how much they contacted you and how many times you never contacted them.