Category Archives: Random Thought

Music For The Moment

Music we listen to when we are relaxing, at a party or with our friends. I know at times we listen to music that usually fits our mood or the time of day. With today’s type of music we can find music to fit ANY situation that we are going through or just that time of the day when you are about to start the weekend and just be HYPE to leave work.

You just got paid and your soupped and want to buy things
Money to Blow(Birdman)

You @ the club you bag like 5 numbers
P.I.M.P.(50 cent)

Fucked over by someone
On To The Next One(Jay Z)

Seriously why you in my way?
Move Bitch(Ludacris)

Deep stare into each others eyes,ready for the next step
Unthinkable(Alicia Keys)

Feeling like a baller(after your paycheck)out with girl at mall
Throw it in the bag REMIX (Fabolous)

Found that person that you only want
One Love(Trey Songz)

Leaving work on a Friday to start your weekend
All The Way Turnt Up(Roscoe Dash)

We have songs that we always associate with what’s going on around us ALL the time especially if you listen to a lot of music. This I believe shows how unique and strange some of us are. If you don’t do this, well then you’re just a completely normal person who does not think outside the box. Like Kesha said in her Tik Tok song “Wake up in the morning feeling like P. Diddy.” Seriously?? Can you imagine waking up feeling like him? Your stock going up, your ciroc drink is the shit, your sean john clothing line doing well, like really??? I want to wake up feeling like P. Diddy more often than I would be like,”Hey you! Go to Juniors, get me some cheesecake and some coconut ciroc with some pineapple just.”

Music is the gateway to our souls, so listening to it and relating to it always makes us feel better. This is music for the moment, that moment in which you are feeling some type of way and just want the music to explain how you are feeling.

Having Standards in 2010

Hey Everyone! Today’s topic is having standards in 2010. This basically refers to the people you surround yourself with everyday of the week.

Standards is defined a rule or principle that is used as a basis for judgment or an average or normal requirement, quality, quantity, level, grade, etc. (dictionary.com)

Now that we KNOW what standards are we have to sit there and ask ourselves “Do I have standards?” You will know immediately by the type of people you surround yourself with. “Do I have friendship standards?” Do you just let anybody into your friendship circle? If you do then you have no standards in my opinion. This always depends though especially if you have a good group of friends that you trust and one of them wants to bring someone into the loop. If you trust this persons “standards” then you should be fine and nothing will happen, BUT if the person that is brought in is just the SCUM of the earth I think there should be some type of intervention for this case. Me personally I don’t let everyone into my friend circle . . . I break it down into 4 categories:

Acquaintances – People who are not of friend caliber yet and I talk to here and there on some random stuff (Once in a blue)
People – Those who have earned a little bit of my trust and that might have a little potential of being hit up on a regular
Friends – Those who you can have actual conversations with and sometimes don’t give you the greatest advice but are still there
Best Friends – Are those who are always around no matter what, you can call them at 3am and they will pick up the phone pissed as hell but still be there for you to listen. They are pretty much your cheering section and always want to see you do better

When it comes to friends you have to have standards because if you surround yourself with “ain’t shit people” you start to become one of them. Standards when it comes to friend’s lets you know who you CAN rely on and who you CAN’T rely on.

Now standards as it pertains to relationships, this is something you build up as you go in and out of them.

TO BE CONTINUED . . . . Standards and Relationships . . . .

The Other Guy (Topic Chosen By JamJam)

Good Morning Readers! Hopefully everyone had a good weekend and enjoyed it! WELL today’s topic is about “The Other Guy.” The other guy I am referring to is the one that females refer to as the one that f**ks them over so they say F all dudes.

It always starts off boy meets girl, they start to talk about themselves and then it gets down to talking about past relationships or people who we talked to before them. (It always good to know about the last person because you can learn things not to do that will piss off the person you trying to talk to now.) When I’m talking to a female first thing they ALWAYS say is the dude fucked her over for another girl or he took her for granted. (Now that we know what the other dude did we try not to make the same mistake) Sometimes when I am talking to my female friend’s conversations usually go like this:

Kevin: So why aren’t you with anyone your mad chill, relaxed and great to talk too.
Female: Well, I’m over dudes at the moment the last guy I was talking to he fucked me over and I am just over dudes, there all the same
Kevin: PAUSE! . . . all dudes are not the same, sorry the ones that you messed with where a different breed. I apologize for them.
Female: Dudes really aren’t shit though they all want the same thing! I hate them all
Kevin: You should rephrase that because the dudes YOU FUCKED with aren’t shit so get it together

That’s how most conversations end . . . . with them saying “Dudes ain’t shit” just say “Dudes I’ve fucked with ain’t shit” then we wouldn’t be so mad. Now that we know your situation, which is very common among females, what is the next step?

Most times when females say they aren’t into talking to people at the moment it’s only because they are still feeling some type of way about the other dude. This other dude messes it up for the rest of the male population because most females are self conscious about this stuff. Some think “okay I don’t want to get hurt again I will play it safe now”, “I don’t want to waste time on another person again” or “I’m not cute enough for anyone else” (YES I’ve heard females say this one). All you can do as a guy is just be there and be supportive , try to prove them wrong that all guys aren’t the same. Females have to remember though they need to stop messing with little boys and start messing with men who won’t treat them like that. Live, learn and move the hell on . . . you can’t let your past troubles define what you do in the future with someone else. If you let your past rule your life then you’ll live in your past forever.

Facebook Stalker (Topic Chosen by Jeremiah M.)

Today’s topic is about the typical facebook stalker. First let’s define what a stalker is 1.To pursue by tracking stealthily. 2. To follow or observe (a person) persistently, especially out of obsession or derangement. (dictionary.com)

NOW that we know what is stalking lets continue with this topic. . . .stalkers tend to stay in the shadows until they want to be noticed. Facebook stalkers are a different breed though, they are those people SOOOOON as you turn on your fb chat you get that message “HEY HOW YOU DOIN!?” “HOW WAS YOUR DAY?” “YOU SHOULD CALL ME SO WE CAN TALK SINCE I STILL DON’T HAVE YOUR NUMBER” . . . .PAUSE . . .step back and let me look at my notifications first before you ask me 21 questions like we married or something.

Sometimes STALKERS come off very nonchalant or casual until you let them in. These people are the ones who hit you up way to much or comment on all your pictures, LITERALLY ALL you pictures, and don’t ever get the message that “back the hell up and give me space” type deal. Sometimes when you don’t even turn on FB chat they already know your routine, meaning they know when you come on, who your friends, where you be at. They will hit you wit a couple FB comments on your page such as “Why aren’t you on FB chat I know you’re off school” or “I understand you have a bf but I REALLY want to be friends with you so give me your number and we can chill somewhere” or “Why haven’t you hit me back I messaged you 3 days ago at exactly 3:45pm and I seent that you commented your friend LaQuana just 5 mins ago why you avoiding me?” Just little things like that might consider someone a little bit stalkerish.

How to get rid of a FB stalker:
Step 1: Identify the Stalker
Step 2: Tell them to fall back politely
Step 3: If they don’t fall back BLOCK THEY ASS!!

. . . .that is all . . .