The final topic of this serious Part#4 “What is a Bad Girl?”

Nicole SieversThere are many reasons a girl could be considered “bad”, but to me the ultimate bad girl is a girl who creates drama and problems for no reason. Bad girls are usually the first ones to stab other people in the back, and create situations when they feel all eyes aren’t on them. She is manipulative and conniving, and usually quite the bitch. The “bad girl” usually preys on using a guy for everything he has, whether it be his money or kindness. They will use anything and everything they can to manipulate guys into giving them exactly what they want. They are constantly jealous of every little thing, when its usually them cheating/flirting/talking to other guys. If said bad girl is single, there is a good chance she is trying to steal your boyfriend, just to see if she can. Bad girls will do everything and anything to be number one.

Mario Williams
Bad girls…in my opinion bad girls are those girls who have no good intentions at all, they just pretend to. Bad girls have a tendency to leave scars inside the men they’ve dealt with, especially those men who really cared for them. The bad girls I’ve seen always turn out to be wolves in sheep’s clothing. They play like they’re really sold out for you and within a moment’s time, they mysteriously have a change of heart. Bad girls like this make it hard for good men out there to really trust a woman. That’s why there are a lot of men who dog females. Not to excuse that behavior, but it’s true for a lot of men. Because the fact that men don’t want to feel played, they won’t open up to females and it’s because of the “bad girls” out there.

Jose ChanquinA girl you don’t want to be in a relationship with …… a girl who can’t hold her own like is dependant of someone else and seems like she has no future ahead of her doesn’t work or doesn’t go to school …she has to be mature right from the beginning if she likes to argue for no random reason, a girl who is confident about what she got and won’t be doubting you and questioning you with every phone call and every text message, she has to know you don’t only have guyfriends there are also female friends and she understands that, she knows that you both have lives so it means she can go out with her friends and you hang out with your friends no discussion.

Remember these are just opinions and thoughts of others so don’t feel some type of way about “other” peoples opinions. Everyone has there own definitions of what they think a bad girl is because we all have experienced something different. Whenever you are faced with “Good Guy, Good Girl,Bad Guy or Good Girl” just relax take a deep breathe and do what you feel is right.

Tomorrow’s Topic: “I like you. Oh thats kool I like you as a friend too” WTF?! (Why is it bad to have a crush/like someone)

Part #3 of our topic is “What is a BAD GUY?” as we compare all of these remember these are only peoples opinions do not get offended or feel any type of way if somebody is describing you.

Kevin Pierre
A bad guy is many things

Usually a person who doesn’t cherish the great people he has around him. That person who isn’t there when you need him to be for support. Bad Guy is the type to be in a relationship and always playing games like he isn’t in a relationship. He always wants someone else when possibly he has the best person that god could offer him. Sometimes Bad Guys are Good Guys in disguise and they say there good when your getting to know them but there WHOLE mentality changes once they know they got you hooked to them so they abuse your kindness for weakness. Most times females can’t get away from the Bad Guy cause there so attracted to them just because they have that “I don’t give a fuck persona” about them and some females are attracted to that no matter the consequence. I have seen it enough where Good Girls get fucked over by BAD guys and the chick still wants to be there through the pain and everything cause they like the person. Bad Guys usually cause pain and don’t care bout your feelings at all, there just doing them.

Marie Hinds
Many things make up a bad guy, but a bad guy exhibits three main
qualities that make him a “bad” guy.

First: Over confidence
Confidence is like a magnet that attracts people. Yes
confidence is amazing but when you cannot see your own flaws it become
an issue. When you cannot see your own flaws, you do not work on them,
nor do you attempt to improve on them.

Second: Selfishness
A selfish guy never appreciates the things done for him.
He is selfish in love, making love and giving. He always takes from
those who are willing to give to him and sees nothing wrong of that.
All about him, all the time because well he is first and foremost a
gift [back to the over confidence], and doesn’t see why he shouldn’t
be catered to.

Third: Unapologetic
A bad guy does not apologize for the things he has done
wrong. And that is just trouble

I honestly can only think of guys who have been bad in the past and
what actions have caused me t say they are “bad.” Hope this makes sense

Lena
One attribute of “the bad guy” is that he purposely does the wrong thing- he just does not care about anyone but himself. He also boasts of his “bad ass” ways to anyone who will listen.

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PART#2 What is a Good Girl? this part is split in half because of a male and female perspective. Today is the male perspective

Jamel.V.Vanderburg (Male perspective)
As I’m writing this article, there are many thoughts that are going through my mind. I’m also stuck to watching “He’s Just Not That Into You”, a movie that breaks down the psychological aspects of the opposite sex and the relationship pieces that make or break unions. I mention this because despite the many relationships analyzed in this movie, there is no true clarity of good vs. Bad other than a few character flaws in each individual.

As I write this, I had something interesting happen to me tonight. While at an event tonight, as I sit down to have a drink with friends, on the other side of me is my ex-girlfriend, staring me straight in the face. I couldn’t even describe it as a holy hell moment, but a surreal one. Allow me to give you some back story:
Ms B. is your definition of a hood girl, gangster girl, or bad girl, if you will. Up until we began dating last year, I wasn’t too sure bad girls existed other than lying, cheating, manipulative girls who don’t know the definition of a good man or how to be a good woman because for the most part, they’re bipolar, emotionally scarred beings….that’s another story for another time.
Back to the story….I made a vow years ago that I would never date anybody:
A. That didn’t have a college degree
B. That I couldn’t bring home to my parents
C. That smoked, drank, and seemed unstable

Needless to say, I broke this rule. Ironically, Ms. B was the opposite of EVERY girl I had ever been interested in. She was my complete opposite and that led to increased attraction between us. Since we’d known each other since hs and I’d always had this fantasy of making out hard with her, I achieved a lifelong goal on my bucket list and thought something was happening for the good.

However, our strong attraction for each other could not overpower the differences we had in family life, morals, schooling, recreational activities, and just life in general. Even though she wasn’t a bad person, her “bad” vibe wasn’t compatible for my political business lifestyle. Our swags went in two other directions.

I say all of this to say that we often tolerate influence by friends, the media and other factors about what defines a good girl. Girls with great asses, a nice rack, and has lips juicy enough to suck the skin off a penis could be considered traits of a good girl by some. We depend on physical characteristics rather than the emotional piece that is more important than any physical part can tell.

For me, a good girl has to be intelligent. There will be no dummies on my arm at any time. They have to be able to hold a conversation in just about anything. They must carry themselves in a proper manner. They can drink, but not be excessive. I also don’t tolerate smoking EVER. Did it once before and never again will that happen. They have to be able to support me, nurture me, rub my ego every once in a while, but most important, our souls must mesh. This is why I must marry an AKA and nothing else.

I say all of this to say there is no true definition of a good girl except for the definition we give it. This is my personal feeling. I will not and never will give it standing similar to the bible, but I would say it’s pretty accurate.

Right now there are 2 “good girls” I could honestly consider marrying at the drop of a dime. I just wonder what their definition of a good guy is and if I fit the mold.

Got a feeling there will be a pt 2….

What is a good girl????????? to be honest you have to make your own decision on what a good girl is but she is definitely somebody you never want to let go

Tomorrow’s Topic “WHAT IS A BAD GUY?”

PART#2 What is a Good Girl? this part is split in half because of a male and female perspective. Tomorrow will be the male perspective

MUNCHY (Female perspective)
First and for most, a good girl should never ask a man for anything. She should always hold herself down even through the toughest day’s she must keep her head up and say “yeah, I got it”. Yes, I am talking about a “Ms. Independent”. Some men, may be intimidated by one, but if he is, obviously, he cannot handle her.

Secondly, A good girl is a “giver” not a taker; meaning she provides for those she loves and always willing to give a helping hand to those who needs it. She has a warm heart and puts other people’s needs before hers. She knows how to have fun, and make you smile.

Thirdly, a good girl is not a housewife, but must know how to cook and clean. PERIOD! (No further detail)

My next point (I think I speak for all the fellas when I say this), but a good girl is a “lil freak”. Lady in the streets & a freak in the sheets. Who ALWAYS keeps her man on his toes even when she’s away from home. The type to send subliminal text messages to her man every now and then. The girl who doesn’t mind wining and dining her man every now and then. She gotta keep her man right?

Last and final point: A good girl is faithful, trustworthy, forgiving and REAL. Says what’s on her mind and doesn’t bite her tongue. Let’s her man know’s when she’s unhappy, so he doesn’t have to wonder what’s wrong. (Sounds familiar ladies?) Then you wonder why he’s sleeping with someone else— Because he can’t make YOU happy.

Overall, A good girl is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. Someone who know’s you like the back of her hand. The one that will be by your side through thick and thin… Your Brown Sugar 😉