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My Random Thoughts Part#1

My thoughts tend to lead me to random thinking sometimes but have you ever sat down and thought to yourself “What if we didn’t have social networking websites?” or “Why don’t people take the opportunity to go out a vote?” or “Why is this person claiming me and we don’t even talk or go out?” or “Why is this person only talking to me now, but every other time ignores me?” We all have sat or stood in the presence of people who have done these things and we look at it so dumbfounded as to “Why in the Hell are people so stupid nowadays?”
At one time in life we all didn’t have Internet or these super networking sites, we use to go out to mixers, parties, events and meet people. This is a way to build communication and speaking skills for some, for those who are shy, like me, to learn how to open up to those around them. Not saying we can’t still do that but it has somewhat been hindered by the emergence of the social networking sites. We wake up each morning to check if we have an update, if some commented on our status or we look to see who is doing what this early in the morning. We spend countless upon countless hours on social networking sites but what if . . . there were no social networking sites? Just think about it, “WHAT IF . . . THERE WERE NO SOCIAL NETWORKING SITES?” What would you be doing with your extra time? I am a heavy facebook user and during the summer I took about a 3-4 week hiatus from facebook just to see how it would feel. I didn’t check my phone, I didn’t check my email for facebook alerts and whenever someone brought up facebook my typical answer would be “I am not on there at the moment.” I had so much extra time in the day I really didn’t know what to do with myself especially after I finished my homework. So I would just sit and read and get ahead of my class in projects and homework assignments. Now that I am using it again I am not an addict like most people, and to see how society is so connected with facebook and twiiter, I believe people will freak out if they didn’t have their facebook or twitters to go to. We have made it a part of living, just like brushing our teeth, washing our cloths, eating food it’s a part of our makeup now and to get rid of it would damage some and make others go crazy. . . .just saying.
The sad thing about people not voting is that it hurts the whole country and it hurts us as individuals. Most people say they hate our government, they hate the people that are running stuff, they hate certain things not being passed . . .well “DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!” You have the ability to vote but you don’t even make an attempt too. Your excuse can’t be that you didn’t know you had to vote or that you just weren’t sure what to vote on, you just didn’t CARE. This is a chance to get your voice heard and you don’t take this opportunity? Where they do that at?? (The United States) Think about it this way, voting is a PRIVILEGE and not everyone around the world can vote so be happy that your government is allowing you to vote because they could become a dictatorship and not allow you to just an FYI.
You know you have been in those situations when you are getting to know someone and you guys hang out nothing serious happens you guys have a good time and one of your people hit you up “Hey you go out with so and so?” That’s the thing you usually hate to hear especially if you are not even talking to the person on some serious stuff. This is what we call the “claim game” and some people take this serious and others don’t but this is another topic in itself. Recently one of my friends got into one of these situations where he went to chill with his new friend, they got where having fun they kissed one time and next thing you know her telling people that they go out. How does something happen like this you say? Well leading people on is the way the “claim game” works so word of advice to lead people on!!

Caring To Much, Has Its Limits

So as I talk to a lot of my friends lately I like to just txt, bbm or call people and see how everything is going just to catch up. Sometimes you have to make that push to actually see how people are doing. There are times when you are just sitting there and just think to yourself “I wonder how Allyson is doing?” So you pick up your phone and just hit that person up to find out “WHATSUP!?” Sometimes you have to take the initiative to show people “hey I care, I am here if you need me,” but sometimes there is those people who know you care a whole lot and just try to push you away. No matter what situation you are going through, they will sit there and talk to you about it, and then try to push you away. This is when you just stop, think about this and say to yourself “they don’t need my help with this” and keep doing you. Eventually they will realize you have reached your limit and don’t care anymore about what they are going through.

To notice when someone has reached their limit about caring what’s going on in your life, is all in their actions. Sometimes you get those over-caring people (I know a couple of these) that no matter HOW HARD you push them away they will continue to be there no matter what. They will call, txt, bbm, fb message you, or show up at your door to make sure everything is going good and that no one is messing with you. Me personally at times if I see one of my friends down and out and tell them straight up ,” who am I gonna have to cut?” just cause sometimes you have to say those things. As long as people know you are there they will never try and push you away.

If it gets to the point though when you give advice after advice after advice to the same person about the same issue and they keep doing the same thing no matter WHAT, then you have reached your limit. You always hear that voice in the back of your head that’s just like “I know you are not going to listen to me so I don’t care anymore.” Life in itself is a million different challenges, you can either face them with help or alone. Just know that people have their limits when it comes to certain things.

Live. Laugh. Love.

Worst Ways to Break-Up With Someone

So I was talking with my co-worker and we were sitting here talking about how people should just break up with each other if they are not interested. Be 100 percent forward so there is less collateral damage. In some cases we have witnessed break-ups and they have been UGLY especially done in the wrong venue or just in the wrong way.

5. In a place where there is a lot of people
In a public place you think you are safe and nothing out of the ordinary will happen. Sometimes people just like to create a scene so everyone feels bad for them. I have witnessed one of these and I thought it was hilarious to be honest. The chick had a mental break down and the dude all he could do was stand there and look stupid. One of his friends probably told him it would be safe doing that but that definitely was not safe for him in this case. You don’t know what goes through people’s mind when they just enjoyed sometime with you and you tell them it’s over.

4. During the Middle of a Date
This would kind of go into the same category as public but at the same time not. You guys are having a wonderful dinner, just came from the movies and are having a beautiful walk on the beach when those words come out of his/her mouth. “I think we should just be friends” . . . . . Your whole body freezes and you are just like why? We just had the best night ever and after this wonderful night you are telling me you want to be friends. If they spent money on you the whole night and thought it was great, then you end up breaking up with them in the middle of the date how you think they are going to feel? You might have to walk home, just think about it before you do it.

3. Through Another Person
Sometimes we think this is good, when we did this when we were younger. NOW though you can’t do this because your friends will feel some type of way and will get the full brunt of the fury of the other person. Just think about the repercussions for your friends and for yourself if your friend gets upset over this.

2. Facebook Relationship Status/Wall Post
This I feel is soooooooo bad and horrible because for someone to find out this way is very hurtful. EVERYONE else in the FB world finds out before you and you’re still sitting there thinking you still go with that person when you actually don’t. You significant other changes their status and you’re like “OMG WTF!?” and there like oh yeah we don’t go out anymore. You are just like when did we talk about this. The way technology is moving we think it’s so easy to change relationship statuses at the drop of a dime. This is very tacky and only a bitch would do this, so for those who have broken up with people through facebook guess what you are. . . .

1. Text Messages
This right here has to be the lowest blow you can give to someone, this right here really means you didn’t care at all about their feelings or what you guys have been through. Okay I know sometimes (all the time) we have our phones with us and we are texting away no matter how far some people are instead of calling them we have full length conversations with them through text messages instead of just calling them. Just texting someone “ I think this is over we can still be friends though” is a horrible message to send someone.

Personally it’s funny as hell to see how people get broken up with especially if it’s in some weird ass way instead of directly. Just be careful how you do it because people will stalk you if you didn’t end it with them correctly.

Are There Any Scary Movies Anymore??

As I was watching Nightmare on Elm Street again, the 2010 release, I was just sitting there smirking and anticipating everything that was going to happen. I just sat there and wondered when did Freddy not get scary anymore, is it when I actually grew up and realized he wasn’t real? Or is it when they just made him into a joke when he was fighting Jason? I watched the 1984 version and YES I did cover my eyes a couple times because 1984 Freddy I will not go to sleep because he attacks in your dreams but 2010 Freddy I think he is a joke (obviously I wouldn’t think he was a joke if he popped up in my dreams.) 1,2.Freddy’s Coming for You!3,4,Better Lock Your Door!5,6.Grab Your Crucifix!7,8.Better Stay Up Late!Nine,Ten.Never.Sleep Again!

Child’s Play just made me hate dolls, I hated any type of dolls because I would think they would just wake up, start talking and want to kill me. Chucky had to be the definition of a killer child’s toy back in the day. Then they came out with the Bride of Chucky and Seed of Chucky that really made him less of a scary doll and a joke.

Candyman was really a scary character, say his name 3 times in the mirror and he would come and kill you. It got to the point me and my friends would always dare each other to say it when we were younger see who wasn’t a punk but of course none of us would say it. Then there were the sequels then we stopped being scared and I will gladly say his name 3 times in the mirror before I get scared.

As you can see a lot of the old school scary guys are not scary anymore because they had horrible sequels that made them into jokes. Jason, Michael Myers, Dude from the Texas Chainsaw Massacre . . . I will out run them all (As we all know this is impossible the faster you run the quicker they catch you so you might as well walk at their pace). “IT” that stupid clown I hated with a passion, it made me hate clowns for awhile.

The movies I’ve failed to mention are The Exorcist, The Omen , Some Zombie movies because I feel as though these type of movies I will watch and I will still jump out of my seat, it’s got to be a world ending thing now for everyone to be scared of. 28 days later & 28 weeks later changed up the whole scary movie thing . . . . zombie’s can run now?? Who made this rule up? Who allowed you to change the rule book? This change your perspective on how things change when one director adds something new to something that has been slow moving since “Night of the Living Dead” (1968)

Are there really any scary movies anymore?? YES AND NO because something that might scare you might not scare someone else