Category Archives: Relationship

Communication Goes 2 Ways(Topic Chosen By Mario W.)

Topic today is about communication and how people only assume it works one way instead of two.

Every time we are out and about its a habit for us to check our phones or our social networks to see who has sent us a message, but it gets frustrating when you send messages and the only time anyone ever responds or gets in contact with you is when you get in contact with them first.

For example, you always hit someone up maybe everyday and they never hit you up but one day you just don’t want to hit no one up and you get the message “so why you ain’t hit me up yet?” well maybe cause i shouldn’t feel obligated to hit you up all the time. People have to understand that communication is the key to success and that it goes both ways not just one way.

Another example of failed communication is that you always hit someone up via text, phone call or message and they never get back to you. They get mad at you though when you’reout with one of their friends and “supposedly” they weren’t invited. Well . . ..if you would have got back to me when i was contacting you like a stalker maybe you would have known. I feel that these type of people if you contact them 3-4 times and they don’t get back to you within a month(just because they might be busy) there numbers should be deleted and that takes up less space in your phone.

Word of advice to those who need it before getting mad at someone for not contacting you figure out how much they contacted you and how many times you never contacted them.

Taking Risks:Crushing 101

When it comes to crushing on someone best thing to do is just TELL THEM! no matter the consequences. Taking risks when crushing on someone has to be the best and most healthiest thing you can do for yourself. Who cares if they don’t like you or if they blow you off, at least you told them and are finally able to move on with life with out that extra weight on your shoulder.

Crushing is similar to liking someone sooooo if your willing to take the risk just do a “Jersey Fist Pump” and walk up to the person and say whats on your chest. Holding back and being shy will not get you anywhere. You always meet those people that always say “I had a crush on you back in the day but was scared to tell you” or “I got something to tell you but your with somebody right now so ill tell you at another time.” Seriously? C’mon son we gotta live in the “NOW” because tomorrow is never promised, you only live once. You might get turned down by 7 or 10 people but there is that 1 person waiting out there for you to just tell them how they feel.

Follow these steps and you will be successful in passing this class:

1. Drink some soda to calm your nerves
2. Find a fist pump song and get at least 3-4 fist pumps out to get hype
3. Just be upfront with the person(don’t spill your soul out but be direct)
If you get shot down . . .more fish in the sea maybe it wasn’t meant to be. If you don’t get shot down, I have 2 dollars for you to go out on a nice date and buy some chips and juice YOUR A WINNER!!

“I like you. Oh thats kool I like you as a friend too” WTF?!

Why is it bad to have a crush/like someone?

Have you ever been in one of those situations when you are feeling someone and your just telling yourself “I’m going to tell them how i feel” but when you do the whole thing blows up in your face? It happens to everyone don’t act like it doesn’t, you tell someone you like them and you get one of these responses:

1.I like you as a friend too
2.Awkward Silence
3.I’m not looking for anything serious right now
4.I’m not interested
5.Thanks for telling me
6.They completely change the subject

When you have a crush/like someone you’ll just start thinking bout them at random times of the day and when you see them sometimes you get tongue tied or just don’t know the right words to say to them (i know that happens to me). Bad thing about having a crush/liking someone is that sometimes they only see you as a friend and nothing more. 9 times out of 10 your the one getting hurt from telling them how you feel. 9 times out of 10 not telling them is just saving you from being burned by someone who may not deserve you at all.

You build up a crush for someone when your getting to know them. I’m not going to front I’ve gotten attached to people “I KNEW” where going to be like “Kevin your the best guy friend I have” or ” I’m not looking for anything serious right now.” This is where the “FRIENDCARD” gets thrown in ALLLLLLL the time. Especially if your crushing hard on someone and they notice and say something like :

1. I think your one of my coolest guy/girl Friend
2. I look at you like my little brother/little sister

Why is it bad to have a crush/like someone? Well . . .cause you usually never win and if you do win your that 1 out of 10 that does, I’m happy for you congratulations. Here is free complementary cookie =) have a nice day

Tomorrow’s Topic: “Taking Risks:Crushing 101”