I touch on this topic a lot because I am always surrounded by people who think of others before thinking of themselves. They would rather put people’s happiness before their own and I also find myself in that same boat. It’s not just people’s happiness they always put before their own but other stuff before their own endeavors. The long hours at work just to come home and forget about their side project. I feel that you have to do better for you, so you don’t feel drained from the weight of the world.
Continue readingPerspective
The perspective of others can sometimes hurt what you see. No one ever understands entirely how you feel and whatever you are going thru. A similar situation may have happened but doesn’t mean they know how you feel as a person. I’ve had people try to tell me how I feel and why I do things the way I do them because they’ve been in a similar place but that’s not the case. Our perspectives are different, how I feel is different, how I act is different and no one behaves the same.
Continue readingThankful Again
I cannot stress to people on how much you could honestly be thankful for. I spent 95% of 2018 just being thankful for everyone and everything around me. The other 5% I had my mental breakdowns, asking why this and why that but I feel like I was allowed those moments to just break down. It allowed me the time to really look at things and be thankful. Have you really sat down and appreciate everything that has been provided to you as of late?
This Tea Though (5)
Sometimes being in love with someone can blind you to certain aspects about them that, if you weren’t in love with them, you would catch immediately. Love causes you to see the best in someone, even if it hurts you to do that. We often miss signs until its a little bit toooooo late. Nothing is ever just picture perfect but you know you have to keep moving forward.