A fuckboy has many definitions but let just keep it easy. Fuckboy is someone who is about self without a second thought to your well being. They always put their need above anything and don’t care who they have to fuck over to reach their goals. This can also apply to women and not generalized to just men.
My thing with this word is that I think people use it so freely when they don’t get their way. They just call someone a fuckboy without a second thought. I was called a fuckboy twice and took great offense to it. I am the type of person to go above and beyond for whoever I’m with. For someone to call me a fuckboy I felt so disrespected. I know I didn’t deserve to be called a fuckboy because of the type of person I am. After I was called a fuckboy I was compared to the other dudes they dated. That’s when I felt another level of disrespect. At no point have I ever disrespected a female. I was raised the correct way. No matter what a female says to you, be better and treat them how you would treat your mother.
In one case, I had to ask why she thought I was a fuckboy and why she considered me like these other dudes she dated. Her answer was that I didn’t want to go to an event with her. That was the logic in her calling me a fuckboy. I had to remind her who she was calling a fuckboy. The guy that buys her flowers, just because, takes her out of her comfort zone, pushes and supports her with all her endeavors, provides a shoulder when she needs it and even fixes her bonnet when she is sleeping. I don’t know what fuckboy goes out of their way to make sure you are good before he is good, but okay. She apologized for calling me that, but it’s one of those things you can’t take back. Second person called me and called me a fuckboy while I was at work. I was upset, told her I would talk to her after work because she messed up my entire mood for the day. I was in a positive mood and it sank, because I was called a fuckboy. Of course I drove to her house and had a deep conversation about it. Her response was that she was emotional and on her period, that’s why she said it.
My assumption is that you always thought of me as fuckboy once they said it honestly. Something that was already brewing in their heads before they said it. When you say how you really feel about someone they will always remember it. People don’t understand the power of words and sometimes never think before they say things.