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Good Guy Vs Bad Guy Vs Good Girl Vs Bad Girl Part#1

What is a Good Guy?
Everyone always sits around wondering why there never able to find that right person for them. When there with a Good Guy or Good Girl they always want somebody a little bit more “bad ass” so to speak. When there with a Bad Guy or Bad Girl they always want somebody a little nicer that cares more about them. “Oh man why can’t I ever get a good guy?” or ” Why can’t I ever find that good girl?” In these next couple post I will invite some of my friends to give me some of there thoughts on what they think each one of these are.

Kevin Pierre
A good guy I believe is a respectable person who respects women in all aspects of life. If a women is being respectful to you and being upfront with you as a gentlemen you should do the same and not treat her like she is a toy to be played with. A good guy never degrades a female and makes her feel like she is worth a billion dollars. He always makes her feel like she is the queen of the ball no matter what situation. A good guy is a person you can tell all your secrets to and he won’t judge you no matter what. A good guy has standards and will never just settle for any type of chick. Good guy always carries himself well and lives up to the morals that he was taught by his parents. Good guy always goes there extra mile to impress you and always wants to see a smile on your face.

MsHumphreyI think as we grow up, our definition of a good guy changes. As the years go by we go through the shoulda, coulda, wouldas, the heartbreaks, and what we thought we wanted. I’ve reached a point of what I need and what I deserve. So when I think of a good guy, I think, of a man that is spiritual, not religious; there’s a difference. I want a guy who Is financially stable and responsible. Knows how to have a good time that doesn’t always involve, cursing, drinking and definitely not smoking. I want a man who isn’t a mama’s boy, but respects his mother as he would want any man to respect me. And last, but not least, someone who knows how to hold their own and be a man whether it be in public at a dinner with clients, more intimate house party with my friends, or just one on one with me. Know something, talk about something, and don’t just fade to black.

MrSmoovA good guy is a gentlemen that respects women for who they are and what they are destine to become. Being a good guys is developed by learning what it takes to become a man that set forth goals and acts on his beliefs. A good guy will treat all women nothing less than him self, learn to accept that person as they are, keep his pride and provide pride and motivation to any female, and also be the man he was brought up to be.

MsHernandez
A good guy in my opinion is a genuine man. A guy who tips extra at restaurants just because. Someone who you can bring home and puts a smile on your moms face. A good guy is honest about who he is and stands by his word.

Everyone defines a good guy as something different, but when your looking for something maybe you should stop talking bout it and actually go for it . . .

Tomorrows Topic: Good Guy Vs Bad Guy Vs Good Girl Vs Bad Girl Part#2: What is a Good Girl?

If you want to put your 2 sense in for the next topics (What is a good girl?What is a bad guy?What is a good guy?) Email me at Kevin_Pierre@hotmail.com

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Ugly _ “in between” _Attractive Part#2

How do we define a Ugly person from an “in-between” person and an Attractive person? Part#2 Looks

This will really be a rough topic especially when we talking about peoples looks. This may be a sensitive issue but I will be 100 percent with you.

A UGLY person in “my opinion” would be a person who is physically unattractive. You would be walking with your boys and there just like ” Yo go put your dog back on a leash” ugly. The group of pretty, gorgeous, delicious looking girls and that ONE ugly looking troll that they walk around with to make themselves stand out more. I’m not going to front I literally ask the chicks “Why are you with her?” and there just like “Oh that’s our friend” BULLLLSHIT and you guys let her come out the house looking like that? ONE she forgot to shave that mustache of hers TWO she forgot lotion for them ashy ass knees of hers and THREE that dress don’t even look cute on her. In the words of Ed Lover “C’MON SON!” Then we have the UGLY chick who thinks she is SOOOOO fly just because she is hanging out with hot chicks. OH NO you better PUMP them breaks, reverse your car back into the garage and get that FULL SERVICE FACE LIFT from AAMCO or MIDAS. (REMEMBER THIS GOES FOR EITHER GUYS OR GIRLS) Then the UGLY person who rejects someone just because they feel that they are to cute for them. Really? Your going to just sit there and let that person reject you? HELL TO THE NO, this might be mean but you gotta keep it real here and tell them straight up “Excuse me? Seriously I only asked you cause I felt sorry for you but you ain’t cute at all boo boo so Ima need you to turn your face the other way from now on when speaking to me and that face of yours, please keep it in your purse when you come out the house. Thank You” Do this with a smile =) makes them feel OH so important.

My definition of an attractive person is a person with a nice smile, beautiful eyes, I don’t care bout there size because beauty definitely comes in any shape and size. Being independent and able to hold your own. A person who is well kept(meaning they brushed there teeth, there cloths are iron and fit them, they don’t smell like rotten garbage) very attractive person but if your hands are rough as shit like you don’t put lotion on your hands or never heard of COCO butter don’t hold my hand. If you can hold someones hand knowing that you used some Johnson and Johnson this morning on your hands then that is attractive. I female that doesn’t have to put make up on, who wears sweats and a t-shirt on and still looks like a million dollars is attractive. An attractive person is a person who catches you with there eyes and MAKE SURE that both yours eyes never disconnect from each other.

FINALLY the “in-between” person, I feel as if a lot of people are this because there neither ugly or attractive but they could be either ugly or attractive by the things they do. These people usually don’t care what people say and work on there look however they see fit. One day they may be the most flyest person walking down the street with they little swag walk, then next day there looking like beetlejuice thinking that its halloween in July. The look of this type of person tends to fluctuate because there on there own thing and dress based on there mood. When there feeling fresh they put on fresh stuff or things that make them look fly that boosts there appearance. Walk out the house with the theme song “Everyday I’m Hustlin”, trying to walk all slow so EVERYONE sees them. Then there is the “I don’t give a f*ck” mood, females will wrap there hair, put some sweats on, a t-shirt, chinese slippers and there “i don’t give a f*ck” face on,do there daily business and DARE someone to say something reckless. Guys will put on a tee, some basketball shorts or sweats, some flop flops and keep it moving.

How do we define a Ugly person from an “in-between” person and an Attractive person? You define these people however YOU see fit either by looks or personality. Remember it is your decision and whatever you decide just know that somebody is making the same decision about you.

(Next Blog: Good Guy Vs Bad Guy Vs Good Girl Vs Bad Girl)

Ugly _ “in between” _Attractive Part#1

How do we define a Ugly person from an “in-between” person and an Attractive person? Part#1 Personality

Every one’s viewpoint is different but these are my thoughts, so my first viewpoint would be personality wise to describe all of these different people. We will look at appearance tomorrow but looks can only get you so far, and those people with the greatest looks usually never have the greatest personalities and aren’t that great to talk to.

As in my previous post an Ugly person has been defined as a person who cares only bout themselves and no one else. They are quick to turn on you and watch you fall when they should be helping you rise to your full potential. They are not a real person with you and tend to lie a lot. This person just brings you down and acts like they are to good to communicate with you. Most of the time the people that fall into this category are the SUPER conceited people who think they look way to good for anyone “normal.” These are the people who have had there seats raised up in to the clouds,by whom? I have no idea, so now they think they are perfect and are better then everyone so now they think they can look down on everyone else. Just think back to that one person who thought they could just get anybody or do anything they want without consequence. Then analyze there tendencies and you will realize how ugly they are.

An attractive person is a low key type of person and also one of those people you have to define on your own because that attractive person could have 1 or 2 tendencies of an ugly person but still be so attractive. An attractive person in my opinion is one of those people who has a welcoming atmosphere about them, there always willing to help you. There easy and comfortable to talk to, and are just honest and real about a lot of things. Instead of trying to bring you down they try and build up on what you already have to lift you up. They are very supportive and rarely get acknowledged because the joy of helping there friends or people around them is a better reward. This person is usually low key and consider themselves a “weirdo” “abnormal” “strange” or “different” because they do stuff that is not normal of there gender

“In-between” you can say are those people that are stuck in the stage where they are a little bit of both 50% ugly and 50% attractive. This person at times shows tendencies of an ugly person by thinking there better then someone or stabbing someone in the back, but other times they might be that person who communicates with you all the time or who doesn’t try to manipulate the group into doing something they don’t want to do. Think back to the person who is sometimes a complete jerk all time, but is still there to support you no matter what your going through then you will figure out who that “in-between” person is.

Personality should really outweigh the look of the person but as human beings we have to weigh in both factors,but remember the best and most attractive person could be the person standing right next to you who has been there through thick and thin to support you through the heartache and the pain. Don’t be afraid to embrace the RIGHT person.

Next Blog: Ugly _ “in between” _Attractive Part#2
How do we define a Ugly person from an “in-between” person and an Attractive person? Part#2 Looks

The Ugly Friend (Topic Chosen by Munchy)

Why do girls have the ONE ugly friend?

Not ugly in the sense of beauty just ugly in the sense of there personality,how they come off , there attitude towards things.

The ONE ugly friend who stabs you in the back and acts like you guys are suppose to stay friends no matter what
The ONE ugly friend who tells you something isn’t cute on you and then turns around and buys it for themselves
The ONE ugly friend who deceive and lie to you right in front of your face and still want you to be there friends no matter what they say
The ONE ugly friend who manipulates the whole group so she can get her way
The ONE ugly friend who never wants to see anybody happy unless she is happy
The ONE ugly friend who thinks about herself and ONLY herself when it comes to any type of situation
The ONE ugly friend who see’s that your trying to get with a dude that she likes and she will make sure that it never happens.

So Why do you have that ONE ugly friend?

Is it cause she has always been there for you? Bullshit
Is it cause she helps you with different situations? Bullshit
Is it cause she gives you honest opinions about things? Bullshit
Is it cause she tells you the truth about EVERYTHING cause your homegirls? Bullshit
Is it cause she makes you feel better about who you are as a person? BULLLLSHIIITT!

There is no clear cut answer to why females have that ONE ugly friend maybe its because they feel insecure bout something or they just like having that one deceitful person close to them. Just one solution is that they need to get rid of them immediately or it could drastically hurt them in the long run.

Side Effects of Keeping that ONE ugly friend:
Guys approach you less often, Back pains, Constant Headaches, Irregular bleeding from your back, Avoidance by the General Public , Picking up the same Bad Habits and maybe in some cases loss of life

Remember these are just my thoughts on different topics but please ladies lose the Ugly friend ASAP

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