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Why Can’t We Just Be Friends?

Networking,

We all do it, its all part of life and how we meet new people.
But, why do people think just because we are talking to them and trying to get there information we are trying to “GET WITH THEM?” Why can’t we just get your information just because we find you intriguing and a good person to talk to.

We don’t necessarily have to be trying to get with you when we ask for your phone number, we are just trying to connect with people who have a similar thought process as us or people who peak our interest.

Guys Point of View: (My Opinion)
Okay as a guy sometimes we do just try and get your numbers to see if we can get your numbers and see what comes out of it but other times we just like having a female friend to just talk to about random things and/or for advice so why can’t we just be friends? Sometimes females already assume just because we are guys we can’t be looking for female friends and thats clearly wrong.

Girl Point of View: (My Opinion)
Straight to the point females think all guys think a like and only want one thing from them no matter how they come off. If a dude walks up to a chick on some friendship type stuff females will look at you like “are you gay?” or “I’m not looking for another male friend.” Females are on there toes for anyway a dude tries to get at them because they don’t want to get played, be somebodies side chick or just dont want to be taken on a ride and left out on the side.

Why can’t I just walk up to you, introduce myself, get your information and just be friends? Why does it have to be more then that everytime I approach you? As I sit here and look at my friends I realize I lost a couple decent ones just because they “assumed” I was trying to get with them but they need to ask themselves “Why Can’t We Just Be Friends?”

(Next Blog: The Ugly Friend)

What If. . . .

As we grow and go through life we always have those “What If” situations and then we wonder to ourselves “What if” i would have made this decision or “What if” i would have done this differently . . .this is just my thoughts on my “What If” situation . . .

I wake up everyday thinking “Wow this is going to be a beautiful day”
I go through my daily motions and always come across a crush or female friend and just stand there in a daze of lost thoughts . . . .

“What if i would have told you what was on my mind?”
“What if i told you that you where a great person to talk to?”
“What if i could have just stopped you and just taken you away from all your problems”
“What if i would have told you that you meant the world to me?”
“What if i told you your smile stops me dead in my tracks?”
“What if i would have hugged you tighter then I usually did?”
“What if i told you how much I liked being around you and how much you made me smile?”
“What if i told you I daydream about you all the time?”
“What if i told you that my feelings for you are out of this world?”
“What if i would have just spoken up and just said what i was thinking? Would that have made a difference at all?”

I then continue my daily routine as usual just keeping that “What If” statement in the back of my mind hoping that one day, maybe, i have the strength to tell you with out anything holding me back how i feel about you.

(Next Blog: Why Can’t We Just Be Friends?)