The whirlwind of life and letting your thoughts get the better of you is crazy. I normally start the year off with a post about positive vibes and good energy but I definitely wasn’t in a good mental space starting off the year. I literally forgot to challenge my thoughts and was overthinking a lot of situations happening in my life. I let my anxiety get the better of me and eventually just had a full on anxiety attack, with the therapist being on the zoom call. She was able to get me back on earth but lordt, was that a rough ride. A rough ride that I haven’t had since my sister (2016) and my dad (2017) died.
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Challenge Your Thoughts
The best thing about having a therapist is that they teach you things that can help you in life. They teach you techniques and things they recognize about you. They check you when you need to be checked or give you the praise you’ve been missing. The main thing my therapist taught me is to challenge my thoughts. Ask myself why am I thinking this way, tell myself to push past these thoughts and then to not let it control how I feel. To challenge your thoughts is to not let them consume you to feeling a specific type of way.
Continue readingMy Head Hurts
I’ve talked about this a number of times but the fact that overthinking situations can ruin your current mood, makes my head hurt so much. Your mind starts playing tricks with you and it’s never anything good, it’s always something negative. When you start thinking, you can easily get lost in your thoughts and that starts to dig the deepest hole that you weren’t expecting to be in. You self-sabotage yourself when you overthink any situation as it relates to work, friendships, relationships, family and life in general.
Continue readingF*ck You, Disrespectfully
The amount of people telling you how you should live life and that xyz is the best option for you is crazy. I am talking in the sense of, you hearing the same people talking about you should be doing this by this age or you should do this with your career, instead of doing that or you should be spending your money on this. Honestly, f*ck you disrespectfully. Don’t get me wrong, getting advice from people is amazing but if you don’t know what’s going on in my life, just stop.
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