Honestly, at this point in my life, I don’t care to be invited to things. It’s great to be involved in activities or a part of something but at the end of the day, I don’t care. Enjoy your fun, it really is okay not to invite me. With the pandemic still going on and most people thinking it’s gone, I would rather look from afar and pray for your continued success from the comfort of my home.
We can say that 2020 was really an interesting year due to covid but the fact that some people did not know how to appreciate their alone time is an understatement. People risking getting together and traveling just to be out is interesting. I mean I traveled, after the fact but that was after a lot of precautions and people getting vaccinated. Being outside you spend a minimum of $100 without even knowing it. You are either hungry or thirsty and you got that stuff at home. I’ve greatly reevaluated friendships and family during this time because I feel like it was a hard time for all of us. I miss people but at the same time I want to be outside in these streets on my own terms. During the early months of covid I did some zoom dates with friends and family just to make sure everyone was good. Linking up with friends and family now, is by appointment. Appointment needs to get approved by management and if it’s too much of a hassle let’s just not link. Don’t get me wrong, I love seeing people but at the same time it has to be the RIGHT people for me to come outside the house. I enjoy not leaving my home and stacking these funds cause I have to reup on the international travel I missed all of 2020.
Don’t invite me to shit if we don’t really fuck with each other honestly. You can hear a no from me as you send the invitation or you just won’t hear from me at all. This applies to weddings, engagements, birthdays, travel, whatever. Most people in my life are not my friends, we are just associates who have common interests and talk to each other on occasion. People who are genuinely my friends know what I’m about and know that courtesy invites are appreciated. At the end of the day I am just living the life God put me on and praying for the happiness of everyone around me.